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Personal Reference Letter
Someone asked you for a reference letter for a volunteer position, a rental application, or something else entirely. You said yes. Now you have to write it. LetterLotus makes that part easy.
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Your letter
- close friends for ten years
- my car broke down — she drove 45 minutes
- stayed until the tow truck came
written into
Sarah and I have been close friends for ten years. When my car broke down last winter she drove forty-five minutes to get me, and stayed until the tow truck came.
That is the kind of thing she does without being asked, and I am glad to answer anything else you would like to know.
Balanced & Thorough
How It Works
Pick your favorite draft
We generate 4 different versions of your letter, each with a different tone. You pick the one that sounds most like you.
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Make any edits you want, then download a print-ready PDF or Word document. It's your letter.
What Your Personal Reference Covers
- How you know the person and the nature of your relationship
- Their personal qualities, values, and character
- Specific examples of their reliability or integrity
- Why you're writing this letter and who it's for
- Your honest recommendation
Frequently Asked Questions
What's the difference between a personal and professional reference?
A personal reference speaks to someone's character, values, and personal qualities. A professional reference focuses on their work performance, skills, and professional conduct. Personal references are common for non-employment situations.
When would someone need a personal reference letter?
Common situations include rental applications, volunteer positions, club memberships, adoption processes, community programs, and any situation where an organization wants to understand someone's character beyond their resume.
Who can write a personal reference letter?
Anyone who knows the person well enough to speak to their character: friends, neighbors, community members, religious leaders, mentors, or family friends. The key is having genuine, firsthand knowledge of the person.
How long should a personal reference letter be?
Most personal reference letters are about half a page to one page (roughly 250-450 words). One or two specific examples of the person's character carry more weight than a long list of general compliments.
What should I include to make it credible?
Say how you know the person and for how long, then give a concrete example or two that shows the quality you're vouching for. Specifics — a time they followed through, helped someone, or handled a hard situation well — are what make a reference believable.
Can I edit the letter after it's generated?
Yes. After purchasing, you can edit the letter directly on the page before downloading. We encourage you to personalize it with your own words and specific details.
How much does this cost?
$39, one time. No subscription, no hidden fees. You get PDF, Word, and clipboard formats, plus inline editing and unlimited re-downloads.
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